All hail the jigsaw

When was the last time you had a jigsaw puzzle out on the table?

During Covid lockdown, would be my answer.

But over the Christmas break - I know, I know, it’s been a while - I saw my teen retreat further and further into the confines of his bedroom. Sinking deeper and deeper into his 3.5 x 6.9 inch screen.

And I knew I had to draw him out.

I appreciate he doesn't want to “hang” with mum. That’s not what any teen needs.

I had to think laterally.

What followed was me clumsily, kicking off a difficult conversation in the car - always easier when you’re both facing forward - a few harsh truths (from both sides), a bit of bristling and a candid swapping of minds.

What felt difficult and confrontational, ended up being enlightening. And kicked off one of the best days.

I wish I’d tackled it sooner.

You don’t need to know the in’s and out’s but, the upshot was that we got a jigsaw out. Not my idea.

And we (my husband, teen and I) have ALL enjoyed pouring over it's 1000 pieces over the last few weeks.

Stopping as we walk by, after supper, on the way to the telly. Honing in on a particular patch, a gap. Working together to find the fit. Remembering where those bloody bits of bike are. Immersing ourselves in a practical task.

And the best bit?

We’ve got to spend time together, working something out together. Losing time to it. Without the magnetic powers of a screen.

And I have to say it’s been lovely.

We’re all too immersed in screens probably. But our teens, well perhaps they need a little help navigating, controlling and balancing it with real life?

I bet you’ve passed the school gates at opening/closing time recently. How many teens did you see ambling along glued to their screen?

It’s the larger proportion, right?

I know there are loads of great activities online that harness focus, patience and problem-solving skills. (I only have to hear the team play screams from upstairs after supper!) But there are plenty offline too.

Maybe not the most dynamic, but jigsaw puzzles are a practical way of building brainpower.

They can enhance spatial reasoning, improve memory, and strengthen critical thinking. Skills that are vital for academic and personal growth.

Jigsaws encourage mindfulness and provide a screen-free break, fostering creativity and perseverance. They also promote dopamine release, rewarding progress and boosting motivation.

Offering a way of building mental resilience while balancing the overstimulation of digital life. A simple, powerful, brain-boosting habit.

This simple jigsaw has been a lovely thing to do. Together.

So, if you’re looking for a team sport that doesn’t involve screens or trainers, why not try the old-fashioned route?

And we’re on the lookout for a Star Wars jigsaw now, so if you see one, please sling me the link.

Thank you.

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